Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Happiness and Health In a Home


Happiness and Health In a Home

By Dr.VS.Suresh Phd.,  Email: bksureshv@gmail.com



Every human home was originally intended to be a real haven of rest-a little heaven on earth, where all of the children would learn to be unselfish.Attitude of love and loyalty were to be inculcated into their minds.It was to be a place where youth could grow up happily,and to which they might return for comfort and guidance even after having left their parents to establish new homes for themselves,such an ideal whenever realized goes far to minimize problems of later life.


True,there are those who think that life must go on according to the brutal ways of the jungle.
They claim that human feelings really do not matter. This is far from true.Man was" made in the image of God" that he might reflect the glory and love of God .Originally he was placed in a beautiful garden home,not in a cruel,heartless jungle with no law expect survival of the fittest.


A happy home should be the heritage of every person who comes into this world.No child should be allowed to remain long in an unhappy home, for unhappiness can soon cause illness of both mind and body.The contented person who has been privileged to know and understand the better ways of life,and who lives sensibly,can usually enjoy the best of health,both mentally and physically.

If children everywhere were given the right kind of home training, there would be no more wars, no more crimes, and no more poverty.Almost all the problems that afflict the human race can be traced to wrong environment during childhood and youth.Proper home training develops a balanced personality.

Many people are too self-centred to live happily together.Even when two people are too self-centred to live happily together.Even when two people marry,it is often impossible for them to get along well with each other.The reason? They are so wrapped up in their own want and whims that they cannot copied by the children, and so it passes on from one unhappy generation to another.


Happiness and Health.


Happiness and Health.


Happiness and Health.
Every human home was originally intended to be a real haven of rest- a little heaven on earth, where all of the children would learn to be unselfish. Attitudes of love and loyalty were to be inculcated into their minds. It was to be a place where youth could grow up happily, and to which they might return for comfort and guidance even after having left their parents to establish new homes for themselves. Such an ideal whenever realized goes far to minimize problems of later life.  Some may not have such a home that is the game of life.
True, there are those who think that life must go on according to the brutal ways of the jungle.  They claim that human feelings really do not matter. This is far from true. Man was “made in the image of God” that they might reflect the glory and love of God. Originally he was placed in beautiful garden home, not in a cruel, heartless jungle with no law except survival of the fittest.
A happy home should be the heritage of every person who comes into this world. NO child should be allowed to remain long in an unhappy home, for unhappiness can soon cause illness of both mind and body. The contented person who has been privileged to know and understand the better ways of life , and who lives sensibly can usually enjoy the best of health , both mentally and physically .
If children everywhere were given the right kind of home training , there would be no more wars, no more crimes especially the shootout at universities and colleges by teenagers , and no more poverty. Almost all the problems that afflict the human race can be traced to wrong environment during childhood and youth. Proper home training develops a balanced personality.
Many people are too self-centred to live happily together . Even when two people marry , it is often impossible for them to get along well with each other. The reason? They are so wrapped up in their own wants and whims that they cannot think of the other person. This attitude is often unconsciously copied by the children, and so it passes on from one unhappy generation to another.

Price of a Happy home
A happy home is never an accident. Some one always has to pay the price, not only in money, but also in the deeper realities of life. But a happy home is worth whatever it may cost. Fortunately it is not a question of money. People who are very poor in this world’s goods can be so happy that their joy exceeds anything that money can buy. There are others who have all that this world can offer, and yet are utterly miserable. Happiness does not depend upon the amount of money can buy. There are others who have all that this world can offer, and yet utterly miserable. Happiness does not depend upon the amount money one possesses, but rather on a wholesome personality and outlook on life.
To build a happy home, both parents must be prepared to get along well with each other. Their personalities must blend together. Each must respect the rights of the other , and both must be prepared to work out their problems without quarrelling . Neither parent can expect to be right all the time. Each must  be willing to give in to the other for the good of all in the home. Defects in one’s own disposition or habits may have to be corrected in order to build a successful and well-adjusted family relationship. Both parents need to remember that the little joys, kindness and happy surprises really make life worthwhile.
Why some homes Fail
Selfish people never create happy homes. Their personalities are too immature. A person who is basically selfish has never completely grown up in mind. He is still an undeveloped adolescent , not a mature person. He will always want his own way. Regardless of the feelings of others. By his actions he is saying , “I want what I want when I want it.”
Such an attitude can never build a truly happy community. Young people should certainly keep this in mind when considering marriage,. It is never wise to marry a selfish person, for the chances of changing him or her are slim indeed. That is why so many homes endure only under great stress or eventually break up . People who are really in love with each other are not selfish or demanding. They are willing to go more than half way in solving any problem they may face.
Jealousy has no place in a happy home. A jealous person tends to be insecure. He is never sure  of himself. A happy home cannot be built around a person whose feelings are easily injured . Real homes are built on love that endures, not on flighty feelings that fade away under the touch of trouble or criticism.
Centre of the Home.
The true centre of every home is the mother. No one else can ever take her place. Her tastes, her desires, her ideals, like those of the little mother bird, will influence everything that goes on within that home. All the interests and activities of a    happy family centre on the mother. If she is kind and cultured, her home will reflect her fine ideals. But if she is careless or ignorant, the home will quickly show her poor  attitude or lack of training .
Education is very important to a young man if he is to succeed in the business and professional world. Everyone will agree o this. But education in the art of home-making is even more important for a young woman, for into her hands has been committed the very future of the human race. Every girl should be given thorough training in the principles of health, Child care and home skills . The success of the family, the community, the nation and the world depends on the young women of today and the kind of homes they establish. There is no greater responsibility than this.
To be a place of true happiness, the home should be bright and cheerful.. Every day each room should be filled with sunshine and fresh air, so that every part of the house will be sweet and clean for the family to enjoy. Above all , it should be a place of joy and love, a place where the door is ever open to friends and neighbors and where even strangers will be received with hospitality  and kindness.
Remember this . Happy parents created happy homes. Happy homes produce happy children. Happy children make a happy community and a happy communities make a happier world.


Awakening the Kundalini


Awakening the Kundalini

Dr.VS.Suresh Phd.,   Email : bksureshv@gmail.com
A man has enormous reservoir of energy within him. Kundalini Shakti is one such cosmic power that lies dormant in the Muladhara Chakra near anus. Yogis awaken this power by Kundalini yoga and take it to the crown of the head by piercing the chakras of the sushumna, one of the important nadis. The other two important nadis are Ida and Pingala. Both these subtle astral tubes correspond to left and right of the sympathetic chains. Ida flows through the left nostril and gives a cooling effect while pingala flows through the right nostril and emits warmth.
Yogis tell us that moon is the presiding deity of Ida and sun is the presiding Deity of Pingala. That is why sometimes the left nostril is flowing, sometimes the right and sometimes both. When left flows, it is the Ida nadi that is operating. At that time one should perform simple and peaceful works. But when the right nostril is flowing, it is Pingala that operates. Then one should do vigorous and hard works such as exercises, eating, bathing, etc. Also , one should sleep during that state , because Pingala digests the food quickly and bestows sound sleep.
But when both the nostrils flow, it is Sushumna nadi that is operating. That is the time for the practice of meditation, repetition of the Lord's name, prayer and enquiry.
Sushu8mna, the best of all nadis, arises from the basal plexus and passes through the spinal column, through the subtle channel of the spinal cord, up to the crown of the head. All Chakras or mystic centres are situated in it.


Kundalini Shakti


Kundalini Shakti

By Dr.VS.Suresh Phd.,  Email:bksureshv@gmail.com
All life in the cosmos is animated by life-force or ‘vital energy’ that is said to be the power that governs the universal power. The Indian word for this life-force is ‘prana’ and Kundalini shakti , the Chinese call it ‘chi’, the Apache ‘divin’ and the pygmies ‘mana’.

This life force (kundalini Shakti or prana shakti) is the animating power that flows through all living things. A living person is filled with it; a dead person has none. It is also the life energy one senses in nature, in the cosmos around us . It is this indwelling force that manifests as the feel of a direction or  a pattern frozen with an instant.

All living beings have this life force (prana or kundalini Shakti) it is the cultivation, expansion, harnessing and use of this force (kundalini) is important. In yoga this done by the activating the subtle system of channels called nadis and centers of energy called chakras which look after our physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual being .

There seven chakras present in the every human being with each one having several spiritual qualities.

Mooladhara Chakra
 The first chakra is situated below the sacrum bone in which resides the Kundalini, and its main aspect is the innocence. Innocence is the quality by which we experience pure, childlike joy, without the limitations of prejudice or conditionings. Innocence gives us dignity, balance, and a tremendous sense of direction and purpose in life. It is nothing but simplicity, purity and joy.
It is the inner wisdom that is ever present in the little children, and gets sometimes clouded by our modern lifestyles. But it is a quality which exists eternally within us and cannot be destroyed, waiting to be manifest as pure joy when the Kundalini rises.


Swadishthan Chakra
 The second chakra is the chakra of creativity, pure attention and pure knowledge. It is the one which connects us to the inner source of inspiration, and enables us to experience the beauty around us.
The pure knowledge given by this chakra is not mental, but it is direct perception of the Reality, that can be felt in our palms and indicates our subtle blockages. Also this is the center of pure, steady attention and power of concentration.

On the physical level it looks after our liver, kidneys, and the lower abdomen. When we think too much, this center gets drained of energy and diseases like diabetes or blood cancer can occur when this chakra goes completely out of balance.



Nabhi Chakra
 The third chakra is the one that gives us the sense of generosity, complete satisfaction and contentment.
On the left side, the main quality of this center is peace - clearing this chakra can relieve stress and tensions.

On the right side, it looks after our liver which is the organ of our attention and power of concentration.

When enlightened by the Kundalini, the Nabhi chakra gives us our spiritual ascent, righteousness and inner sense of morality, and complete balance at all levels in our life.



The Heart Chakra or Anahat Chakra
 The fourth chakra, the chakra of the heart, is the place where resides our Spirit, our true Self, which is eternally pure and unaffected by anything, like a shining diamond hidden within us which witnesses all our actions.
After Self Realization, our attention becomes for the first time connected to our Spirit and we gradually become aware of it. Our misidentifications with our ego or conditionings drop and we start becoming identified with our Spirit, which is our true nature.

On the physical level, this chakra looks after our heart and lungs - if affected it can cause asthma or various heart conditions.

It is from our heart that the compassion and love manifests, and also the heart chakra is the one that gives us the sense of responsibility and pure behaviour towards others. The heart chakra manifests in the center (at the level of the sternum bone) as complete security and confidence.

All our worries, doubts and fears are destroyed when the heart chakra is fully enlightened by the Kundalini.


Vishuddhi Chakra
 The fifth chakra is the chakra of diplomacy, of pure relationships with others, and of playful detachment.
It removes all our guilts and remorses when it is opened by the Kundalini, and gives us a kind and compassionate voice. The tendencies to dominate others or to feel dominated by others, the feelings of superiority or inferiority and all jealousies are removed when this chakra is nourished by the Kundalini.

Also, the Vishuddhi is the chakra which gives us the connection with the whole, enabling us to feel our oneness and the fact that we are all part and parcel of the whole.


The Agnya Chakra
 The sixth chakra is the chakra of forgiveness and compassion. Forgiveness is the power to let go of anger, hatred and resentment and to discover, in humility, the nobility and generosity of the Spirit.
It is the one that dissolves all our ego, conditionings, habits, false ideas of racialism, and all our misidentifications. It is the narrow gate which opens the way for our consciousness to ascend to its final destination, which is the seventh center.

Roving eyes, watching impure things, or self-centeredness damage this chakra. Watching the sky, earth or nature can help cleanse it.


The Sahasrara Chakra
 The seventh center integrates all the chakras with their respective qualities. It is the last milestone of the evolution of human awareness.
Nowadays, we are at a level which corresponds to this chakra, and our consciousness is able to easily enter into this new realm of perception, which is beyond our limited mind and concepts, and which becomes absolute at the level of the Sahasrara.


Kundalini Shakti is the cosmic power that lies dormant in the Muladhara Chakra near anus. Yogis awaken this power by Kundalini yoga and take it to the crown of the head by piercing the chakras of the sushumna, one of the important nadis. The other two important nadis are Ida and Pingala. Both these subtle astral tubes correspond to left and right of the sympathetic chains. Ida flows through the left nostril and gives a cooling effect while pingala flows through the right nostril and emits warmth.
Yogis tell us that moon is the presiding deity of Ida and sun is the presiding Deity of Pingala. That is why sometimes the left nostril is flowing, sometimes the right and sometimes both. When left flows, it is the Ida nadi that is operating. At that time one should perform simple and peaceful works. But when the right nostril is flowing, it is Pingala that operates. Then one should do vigorous and hard works such as exercises, eating, bathing, etc. Also , one should sleep during that state , because Pingala digests the food quickly and bestows sound sleep.
But when both the nostrils flow, it is Sushumna nadi that is operating. That is the time for the practice of meditation, repetition of the Lord's name, prayer and enquiry.
Sushu8mna, the best of all nadis, arises from the basal plexus and passes through the spinal column, through the subtle channel of the spinal cord, up to the crown of the head. All Chakras or mystic centres are situated in it.
By Meditation one can  raise kundalini , Meditation mean practicing with total absorption. You then don’t really think of yourself as ‘I; but as a part of a composite whole .
One can raise his Kundalini or prana shakti by various practices, there thousands way or more to do it. One important thing that each aspiring practitioner must decide what he is looking for and choose accordingly . What ever you chose the  final result is  same! 


Different types Pranayama


Different types Pranayama

By Dr.VS.Suresh Phd.,   Email: bksureshv@gmail.com
There are many types of pranayama followed by yoga practitioners. Here are some of them
Ordinary Pranayama
An Ordinary Pranayama is simple. A person inhales air, exhales it or retains it for sometime. While inhaling he takes the prana to the anus and unites it with apana. When he exhales, apana is drawn up by prana. In the process of retention, the activities of prana are made to centralise near the region.The last method causes the mind to be free from thought and the practitioner suceeds in meditation and samadhi.
Sukha Purvak
How to do : Sit cross-legged, be relaxed and keep the head, body and spine straight, with the right thumb on the right nostril, with the ring and little nostril with the right thumb, draw prana inside through the left nostril.
Close left nostril also and hold breath as long as you can. Thereafter remove the pressure on the right nostril and breathe out slowly throught the right nostril.
This practice can be continued with the air being drawn in throught the right nostril and breathe out throught the left nostril.
Initially this exercise can be done only five times but can be increased to 20 or 30 times a day.
Think positive consider you are drawing peace, joy, mercy into the body.
If you take 10 seconds in inhaling, retain the breath for about 40 seconds(4 times) and exhale it grauallly in 20 seconds.
Gains : This exercise gives energy and causes the face to shine, develops attractive personality and abovbe all brings in mental peace.
Kapala Bhati
This exercise is undertaken to improve the respiratory system of the body. If performed regularly, this causes the skull to shine.

How to do: The person who has to perform this exercise should sit comfortably as in Padmasan, inhale small quality of air, then exhale quickly.This will cause the muscles of the abdomin to go back and forth.

As is in other cases, initially one should perform this practice ten times. Later he should retain the breath as long as is possible. Then exhale slowly.
Gains: If performed on a regular basis, this leads to purification of lungs and blood and tones up the nervous system.
Bhastrika Pranayama
This is a combinatin of Kapalabhati and Suryabandana, in which 20 to 40 exhalations are made to preced each inhalations.
This kriya consists of rapid and successive forcible inhalations and exhalations. To start with ten inhalations and exhalations will do. There after one should breathe in deeply, reatin the air and exhale slowly. Three to four rounds will do. The number of times of inhalations and exhalations of each round should be increased slowly.

Gains : It not only removes astma and catarrh, but improves the condition of the throat. It awakens the Kundalini Shakti.






Shitali Pranayama
Shital means cooling.
How to do: Pull out the tongue and fold it like a tube. Breathe in air throught the mouth and retain as long as possible with comfort, keeping the mouth closed. Then exhale slowly throught the nostrils. Repeat six times.
Gains : Thirst and hunger goes. It purifies the blood and destroys chronic dysepsia and other diseases.
Shitakari Pranayama
Instead of keeping the tongue out in a tube like shape as told in Shitali pranayama, it should be bent towards the p0alate and air suck with a hissing sound. Then close mouth and retain the breathe with comfort. Then exhale throught both nostrils. Repeat sit times and increase the number gradually.
Gain :This exercise purifies blood.

Surya Bheda Pranayama
In this exercise right nostril is used every time for inhalation and the left one for exhalation. It give rise to heat in the body.
How to do: Close the left nostril and inhale deeply through the right nostril. Press the chin against the chest and retain as long as you can. Concentrate on Ajna Chakra(between the eyebrows). Then exhale slowly throught the left nostril. Practice five times to start with and then increase the number.
Gains :It corrects the imbalance caused by wind and phlegm. Purifies the blood, enhances digestive power, and aids the awakening of Kundalini Shakti.

Ujjayi Pranayama
In this exercise air is inhaled by both the nostrils but taken out throught the left one. Inhaling and exhaling is done by a sound produced by contraction of the throat.

How to do : Sit in a comfortable pose. Breathe in throught both the nostrils( a sound is produced of a mind and uniform pitch) . Retain the breath as long as one can with comfort exhale slowly.

The execise can be done five times to start with and then gradually increased.

Gains:Diseases of the stomach, dyspepsia, enlargement of spleen and live are removed. Throat, mouth and the lungs are purified.

Bhramari Pranayama

In this a sound like that of the bumble-bee is produced while breathing in and breathing out by the throat.

How to do : Breathe in slowly. Without retention, exhale. Practice five times and then breath in deeply. Exhale slowly.

Gains : The sound produced thrills concentrations. It increases circulation of blood, cools the brain and gives immense joy.


Kundalini Pranayama-1
This Exercise requires special mental effort - a visualization.
How to do : Breathe in throught the left nostril. Visualize that the Kundalini Shakti is ascending from Muladhara to Swadhishthana, from Swadhisthana to Manipura at the navel until it reaches the Sahasrara in the crown of the head. Then bring the energy in the space between the eyebrows. Close both nostrils and retain the breath, keeping the mind focused on Ajna Chakra, mentally repeating Om. After retention breathe out throught the right nostril visualizing that the Kundalini retraces from Ajna Chakra to Sahasrara in the crown of the head, form Sahasrara again to Ajna chakra from behind the head, from Ajna Chakra to Vishudi Chakra, Fom Vishudi Chakra at the throat to the centre in the heart, from heart to navel, from navel to Swadhishtrana Chakra and from Swadhishthana Chakra to the Muladhara at the anus.
This can be done five times to start with and then gradually increased.
Gain : This awakens the mystic Kundalini and bestows various psychic powers.

Kundalini Pranayama-2

How to do: Sit comfortably. Breathe in air throught the mouth, visualize the movement of Kundalini from the Muladhara Chakra to the Sahasrar and from Sahasrara to the ajna Chakra. With out retaining , exhale througg the mouth. Visualize the retracing of the Kundalini Pracice five time to start with and then gradually increase the number.

This cleanses Sushumna and awakens the Kundalini Shakti.


Kevala Kumbhaka

In this, there is no inhalation or exhalation. It is pure retention. When a yogi advances in the practice of pranayma, he can hold the breath by his mere will suspendin inhalation and exhalation. With the control of subtle Prana the breath stops. A yogi conserves abundance of energy throught this.

Kevela Kumbhaka is not retention with force, but spontaneous retention of breathing due to mastery over the subtle prana.

Nadi-shodhana Pranayama

This for the purification of the naids or the astral nerves through which the subtle Pranas flow. Without the purification of the nadis one cannot acquire success in Kundalini yoga.





How to do : Inhale throught the left nostrtil, mentally repeating the Bijakshara(root-letter)LAM of the earth element and fixing the mind on Muladhara Chakra at the base of the spine. Repeat it eight times. Then close both the nostrils and mentally repeat LAm thirty two times.Exhale repeating the Bijakshara sixteen times. Then inhale throught the right nostril and practice the same. Repeat Vam at Swadhisthana chakra, Ram at Manipura, Yam at anahat, HAm at Vishudi and Om at Ajna Chakra.

The nadis are also purified by selfless service of humanity, cultivation of divine virtues, development of devotion to God and by deep enquiry pertaining to the nature of the Self.



All these modes of Pranayama aim at one common goal and that is of bringing the mind under one's control. The Physiological effects that go with these varities, however, show some variations.